So you’ve been dating a new guy for weeks or months and he’s reluctant to call you his girlfriend and he’s even more reluctant to tell you he loves you. If the relationship is providing everything, or almost everything that you want it to provide, it’s very, very unlikely that he’ll be motivated enough to change it. If he doesn’t, and if he runs, that’s actually a good thing – it shows that he wasn’t willing or ready to commit to you in the way you wanted, so that allows you to attract a man that does want a committed relationship.
You might spend three or four nights a week together, but then you don’t see him over the weekend. Motivation is key to moving a relationship from casual to serious – and if he isn’t motivated, he won’t change. But he might surprise you and he might actually step up. If you get stuck in a casual relationship rut, with a guy that doesn’t want to change, you need to ask yourself why you got stuck in that relationship in the first place.
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If you feel like you and your partner are going in a great direction, you may want to take it to the next level.
Most single people I know date and sleep with multiple people at once, and I suppose they do it mostly because In a city like New York, you can have your regular thing in Greenpoint and side fling in Tri Be Ca—those two probably won't cross paths.
If a committed relationship was really the most important thing to you, you would have held out for it – so think about your own motives about getting involved with Mr. Security To attract the type of men that want a relationship that’s committed and fulfilling for the both of you, or to switch your casual relationship into a serious relationship, you need to be secure.
You need to come from a place of security, and of loving yourself.
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